Category Archives: Who I am

Song for the day.

‘Tis the gift to be simple, ’tis the gift to be free ‘Tis the gift to come down where we ought to be, And when we find ourselves in the place just right, ‘Twill be in the valley of love and delight.When true … Continue reading

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More realistic problems.

Looking at my last post, I have to face the fact that the self-flagellation I engage in is a luxury. I don’t have to worry about living on a few dollars a day.I don’t have to decide between food and … Continue reading

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I wish my brain would just shut up, sometimes.

[Warning: this post is going to be a whine.  I am blogging this because it’s too long for Facebook and I want a reminder of the first part of the post. I am disabling comments because, while reassurance is always … Continue reading

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This is so completely true of me.

“I am not a morning person in the same way that the stars are not fruit-bats.” Neil Gaiman.

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I love you.

Rachel Kay Albers on why she never plays hard to get. I agree with her completely, and  I do as she does, with one notable exception:  with romantic partners, unless I was very sure that I knew how they felt about … Continue reading

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My name is Pat, and I am powerless over…

I have just spent time reading over all my “Gratitude Posts.” (See sidebar.)  I feel pretty good. I write acceptably well, but there tends to be a lot of overlap in the lists.  This is not surprising, since I wrote … Continue reading

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I wish you joy.

On Tuesday, I went to Grace Cathedral to walk the labyrinth.  Something I was involved in had just ended on Monday, and between that ending and my job assignment being completed, and just life generally, I felt in need of … Continue reading

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Rorschach.

I used to sing in the car all the time.  Somewhere over the past year I stopped, turning instead to the dulcet tones of NPR, letting my right brain slumber undisturbed. But recently I started again. I have always had … Continue reading

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Randomness.

It is amazing how small things can change my opinion of people. The man at the next table in Starbucks who was loudly (if intelligently and emphatically) correcting a colleague (or more likely a subordinate) just looked over and smiled … Continue reading

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"Sensibility" and me.

I love Pride and Prejudice.  It is one of my favorite books, and I reread it often.  I do not have the same depth of emotion about Sense and Sensibility, however:  in fact until two days ago I had never … Continue reading

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Still waiting for Clarence.

In this post, I tried to identify fifty things that I could say were ways that I have made the world a better place.  I could only find 28.  I have been working on finishing this list lately. I can … Continue reading

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Gratitude posts.

As part of my recovering from my awful April — more accurately my awful mid-March to late April — I have decided that there were a lot of posts that I needed to look at from time to time to … Continue reading

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Love.

Love is giving a gift that you know someone will love, even though you really don’t, and even though you know that you will regret it.  Soon, and for a long time. The Rocket Scientist loves me.

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This is who I am.

In a job workshop yesterday, we were encouraged to write down all the roles we fill in the world.  In my inimitable style, I decided to be as complete as possible, beyond any point of reasonableness. I am: A woman.A … Continue reading

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Understanding Vincent.

My friend Cathy is in town.  On Sunday, we went to Natural Bridges State Park in Santa Cruz.  Fortuitously, we arrived shortly before sunset, and were able to watch the sun sink into the west over the horizon. It was … Continue reading

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