Monthly Archives: June 2006

Andrea Yates and me.

The retrial of Andrea Yates for the murder of her children began this week. When I see pictures of her in the courtroom, the thought flashes across my mind, unbidden, that could have been me. Postpartum depression is a condition … Continue reading

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PSA

My very favorite political and public affairs blog, Respectful of Otters, is back online after a nine-months absence. Rivka is scrupulously fair, willing to call out idiocy in any direction when she sees it, and she does her homework. She … Continue reading

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A letter to the Almighty.

Dear God, I’m really furious. I’ve been working on this acceptance business. Really, I have been. I have let go of needing to know why N. died even though she just turned forty. Of why C. has to raise two … Continue reading

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Requiem.

N. died today. We were expecting it, of course. Still, getting a phone call telling you someone you love has died hurts, no matter how much it was expected. Even the San Diego Wild Animal Park — an otherwise wonderful … Continue reading

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For Whom the Bell Tolls.

I am two thousand miles from my home, in the dining room of my mother-in-law. I have come here to see my husband’s sister-in-law, who is in the last stages of brain cancer. I have never been around dying people … Continue reading

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Why I am not a lactivist.

I was going to do everything “properly” with my first baby. Natural birth, no epidural, no C-section. And I was going to nurse my baby from the start; formula was evil. It’s amazing how dogmatic you can get when you … Continue reading

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Sigh. You would think that people would have better things to do with their time. I am referring to the flap over at Live Journal about the use of breastfeeding pictures as default icons. I was thinking it was an … Continue reading

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